Pillar #3: activate.

say something. do something. act now.

“Following the death of my husband, many community members have reached out to share their stories about the shooter. While we can’t access proof to substantiate claims, here’s what we heard: He was in our neighborhoods stalking and harassing women - even minors - for months. Parents were called to make sure their kids made it home safely from the local businesses he frequented. Threatened women moved from his apartment building. Enraged when his stalking victims weren’t present, he damaged property. He shared delusions about the government and neighbors wanting to harm him. He isolated himself. He talked about committing violence. He worked through the night and stalked during the day - leaving little time for sleep. He canvassed our local Harris Teeter, where he later attempted mass murder and killed my husband, wearing google glasses to record his surroundings. He was suspended from work - an organization that spoke to him minutes before the shooting.

This was, reportedly, not normal behavior for him. He was apparently a well-liked kid and loved by his family. He went to a good college. He worked in mental health care himself. This was a drastic change in behavior. This was a mental health crisis.

Yet the police were only contacted twice. And when they left the scenes, leaving him with access to assault weapons and no mental health care, those who called the police failed to follow-up with much-needed intervention. Why? What were the barriers?

My sweet Peter loved this community. I love this community. Our children love this community. In the foothills of our beautiful Blue Ridge Mountains, we are surrounded by kindness, peace, generosity, grace and patience. Does that culture, which we all love so dearly, explain our complacency?

We have to change - not the core of who we are - but how we respond to threats, criminal behavior, and crisis. We are not safe unless the system and our actions change. Our loved ones in crisis are not safe. We have to do better. We have to act now before it’s too late - again. YOUR ACTION MATTERS.

Our foundation can help. Please see our tips section (below). As we continue to grow, our goal is to provide you with the education, local resources and services to navigate the system and help you and your loved ones get the help they need. Stay tuned. This is just the beginning for us.”

-Megan Martin, Victim’s Wife and Foundation Founder

1) Report crimes and threats.

2) Seek help for those in crisis & don’t give up.

3) Remove weapons from those in crisis.

4) Seek an ECO or ESRO when needed.

5) Collect evidence- everyone deserves due process.

6) Educate others on the stats, our laws & resources.

7) Advocate for change.

BECAUSE YOUR ACTION MATTERS.

What does activation mean to us?

I’ve seen loved ones in crisis. Irrespective of my personal views on gun ownership, I wouldn’t have wanted them to have access to a weapon - particularly an assault rifle. I don’t want to imagine what would have happened had they been armed - the damage that they could have caused to themselves or others. I think we can all reflect on our personal experiences and agree on that, right? This isn’t a partisan issue. This is a common sense issue.
— Megan Martin, Wife & Founder

Need additional help?Here are some scenarios that may apply to you and tips to help :

Do you have additional needs? Or do you want to share your experience?

We want to help you take action.

As a community organization, your thoughts and experiences matter to us. Contact us at PLMlegacyhelp@gmail.com.

Please be patient as we are a small but growing group of volunteers.

Are you concerned that a student in grades 6–12 may be at risk of harming themselves or others?

Please take immediate action

You can submit a report using this anonymous reporting tool provided by Sandy Hook Promise.